Displaying items by tag: Social and Emotional Learning

Wednesday, 12 August 2020 14:47

Restitution

Restitution provides a way for children to “pay back” their mistakes. It can be a helpful way to teach children the importance of treating others and property with respect. When children make mistakes, they should acknowledge their wrong choice and think of a way to fix it. The restitution should be directly related to their incorrect behavior. The focus should be on fixing the damaged property or relationship rather than punishment. 

Below you will find resources you can use at home to help teach this important skill to your child. 

Resources for Young Children:

Information:

Use Restitution to Discipline Your Child

https://www.verywellfamily.com/how-to-use-restitution-to-discipline-your-child-1094755

What to do When Your Child is Not Kind

https://www.readbrightly.com/what-to-do-when-your-child-is-not-kind/ 

How to Help Your Kids Make Amends for Mistakes

https://www.sheknows.com/parenting/articles/850479/help-your-kids-learn-to-make-amends-for-mistakes/amp/

Activities:

Making Amends for Kids

https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/making_amends_for_kids

Videos:

It’s Okay to Make Mistakes 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aLVYtfqSsK0

What to Do After Making a Mistake pt. 7

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HqjXLXfkS6Q

Resources for Adolescents:

Information:

Restitution for Parents

https://realrestitution.com/restitution-for-parents/

Activities:

Restitution Script for Parents

https://www.esd.ca/Programs/Restitution/Documents/Restitution%20Scripts%20for%20Parents%20and%20Teachers.docx

Videos:

What to Do After Making a Mistake pt. 7

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HqjXLXfkS6Q

The Most Effective Form of Discipline

https://www.kidsinthehouse.com/preschooler/behavior-and-discipline/effective-discipline/the-most-effective-form-of-discipline

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Wednesday, 12 August 2020 14:46

Assertiveness

Assertiveness is a healthy way of communicating. It is a calm, clear, direct and respectful way of stating what you want, need or how you feel about something. Being assertive is the most effective way to communicate. However, it can be difficult to master. Many people communicate in less effective ways, such as passive, aggressive, or even passive-aggressive. These are inefficient because passive communication is often unclear and aggressive communication can come off as mean or hurtful. When we communicate assertively, we are more likely to get our needs met by those around us. Below you will find resources you can use at home to help teach this important skill to your child. 

Resources for Young Children:

Information:

Building Assertiveness: How to Help Your Quiet Child Speak Up

https://www.pbs.org/parents/thrive/building-assertiveness-how-to-help-your-quiet-child-speak-up

5 Key Steps for Raising Assertive Kids

https://biglifejournal.com/blogs/blog/how-to-raise-assertive-child

10 Steps for Teaching Your Kids How to be Assertive

https://afineparent.com/strong-kids/how-to-be-assertive.html

Activities:

4 Playful Activities to Help Children Develop Assertiveness

http://www.momentsaday.com/help-children-develop-assertiveness/

9 Assertiveness Activities

http://preventingbullying.promoteprevent.org/9-assertiveness-actitivies

Videos:

Learn to Communicate Assertively

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AJ-e5Q4vhsk

Resources for Adolescents:

Information:

What is Assertiveness?

https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/assertive.html#:~:text=Assertiveness%20is%20a%20healthy%20way,that%20is%20honest%20and%20respectful.&text=Being%20assertive%20doesn't%20come,style%20that%20is%20too%20aggressive.

Assertiveness

https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/assertive.html

Activities:

4 Social/Emotional Skills You Can Easily Practice with Teens

https://nobelcoaching.com/emotional-skills/

Assertiveness Games and Activities

https://blog.trainerswarehouse.com/assertiveness-games-activities

Videos:
5 Tips to Make Assertive Communication Easier and More Effective

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vlwmfiCb-vc

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